25 Conversation Starter Questions for a First Meeting or Date (also for shy / introverts)


What to say, what to ask the first meeting (or first date)? These conversation starter questions PLUS 4 quick tips for making first meetings less awkward will surely help you feel more confident and make you a better communicator in English!


  • Have questions in mind
  • Ask follow up questions
  • Be curious
  • Ask appropriate questions for the person you’re with
  • Find out what people are passionate about
  • Prepare your answer (If you get shy or anxious in a first date.)
  • Be natural
  • Body language
  • Break the barrier
  • Outdoor dates are awesome!


Sound like a confident native speaker! Click here to learn how to use these four verbs with similar meaning.


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